Monday, January 15, 2007
What's Your Emotional Age?
Behavior:7.5/10--Mature
There are countless reasons why people may act or feel a certain age at any given point in their lives. Feeling a certain age is not a static thing, nor is it something that always follows a pre-determined pattern. Some people act older when they are children then have a second childhood in their retirement years. Others act like children until they become parents and then seem to click into a different mode. It can be helpful and insightful to learn which stage you're at right now, and why.
Nobody fits neatly into a given category. There are several components in your emotional age: behavior, feelings, and responsibility. In the area of behavior, you seem to fall into the "adult" category. Adults tend to be efficient and responsible. You are probably a "doer" whom others consider reliable, stable, and consistent. People feel they can depend on you. Of course, if others rely too much on you, it can be a burden. You seem, however, to be someone who strikes a healthy balance between fulfilling others' needs and taking care of your own. Just be aware that if you feel overwhelmed by the pressures put on you, you should take some time out for yourself.
Emotions:9.5/10 Mature
In the realm of emotions, you seem to fall into the "mature" category. This means that you probably have a difficult time expressing yourself emotionally and feel that overt expressions of emotion may be childish. In some situations, this is positive because you are able to be rational and composed. It also means, however, that you might sometimes come across as unaffected or uncaring. It is healthy to allow yourself to "feel" things and to release your emotions when the need arises. A less matter-of-fact approach toward your own feelings might be beneficial for you and help you in your interactions with others.
Responsibility:7.5/10 Mature
When it comes to the level of responsibility you assume, for yourself or others, you fall into the "adult" category. This means that you are probably someone who can be relied on to come through in any situation. People around you likely consider you dependable and strong. Don't let your dominant care-taking side force you to neglect your own needs. Keep a healthy balance and continue to take care of yourself too.
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